Monthly Archives: February 2016



Hi! It’s me, Murry, once again reporting to you from the Braveman’s dinning room table. Tonight they are discussing the up coming presidential election. As you can imagine, it’s a very lively discussion.


They both have real concerns and many questions! As I am sure all of you have as well.

“Stephen, I just read that 51 million Americans eligible to vote are not registered. Only 58.2 percent of registered voters actually go to the polls to vote. I’m baffled by those statistics! With our country in such turmoil and so much at stake, why don’t more citizens exercise their right to vote?” Wanda asked as she paced around the  kitchen table.

“Great question! I, too am blown away by those statistics. It’s very disturbing to watch the “few” decide for the “many.” Stephen answered.

“As a professional sex therapist and educator, I have for many years advocated for the sexual rights and freedoms of all people. For example, I have been very out spoken in our societal attempts to empower those who have been sexually victimized and those that fall into sexual minorities categories. I’m a firm believer that if we do not exercise our right to vote, we may someday loose that right. Our sexual rights and freedoms could fall prey to those that want to reverse the human rights progress that we have made.” Stephen continued.

“Whether you choose to be sexually celibate or openly poly amorous, joyfully vanilla or adventurously kinky, the decision should be up to you provided you practice appropriate responsibility for yourself and others. VOTE and maintain that right, don’t give it up!” Stephen finished.

So, as Stephen and Wanda have said tonight, please VOTE, if not YOU, WHO? If not NOW, WHEN? Let’s turn this election into at least a fair and balanced contest. If all of the people speak, they will have fair representation! I know that voting takes some time and some homework, aren’t our sexual rights and freedoms worth a little time and homework?

Many of you use the excuse that your vote doesn’t count. That is simply not true, don’t you think you count, don’t you think you matter? It’s time we as citizens of these United States acknowledge our rights and our personal responsibility. Please, please think enough of yourself to use your voice to make a difference in our government. Everyone counts, everyone can make a difference, one VOTE at a time!

This is your Fly on the Wall“, Murry buzzing off to watch the election returns on the primaries!! You know if I could I would vote!!!





“WHAT’S THE BUZZ, WITH STEPHEN AND WANDA” Hi! It’s me, Murry, the Braveman’s “Fly on the Wall” reporting from their ISGC offices in Monterey, California. Today, Stephen and Wanda have been busy sending out their latest newsletter, THE BUZZ. They are excited to present their very special  MARCH two-day workshop, SACRED INTIMACY/TANTRA FOR SEXUAL ABUSE SURVIVORS… Continue Reading

Shop, Shop, Shop, come visit us at the Old Monterey Downtown Farmer’s Market

“WHAT’S THE BUZZ, WITH STEPHEN AND WANDA”   Hi! it’s me, Murry.  I am outside at the Old Monterey Downtown Farmer’s Market with Stephen and Wanda. They hit their table in front of the Lollapolozza every Tuesday afternoon at three. They carefully set up their table with their books, “CPR for Your Sex Life, How… Continue Reading

What’s happening this week at ISGC!

“WHAT’S THE BUZZ, WITH STEPHEN AND WANDA” Good Monday evening, it’s me, Murry, buzzing in from the Braveman’s round table here at the offices of ISGC of Monterey. Stephen and Wanda have been so busy today that they did not have time to dine together tonight. I have had so many people asking what Stephen… Continue Reading

Roses are Red, Violets are Blue, you are here, I am here too!

“WHAT’S THE BUZZ, WITH STEPHEN AND WANDA” Happy Thursday! It’s me, Murry, speaking from the Braveman’s  kitchen table. It’s late, Stephen and Wanda spoke tonight at the Monterey Rotary Club. Wanda commented to Stephen as she poured him a cup of coffee, “They laughingly said they were a small club. I saw a group of happy, intelligent professionals… Continue Reading

Miss Me? I went hunting for meat!

“WHAT’S THE BUZZ, WITH STEPHEN AND WANDA” Hi! it’s me, Murry, just kidding about looking for meat, well sort of kidding! It’s tough to be a vegan “fly on the wall”. Two days in a row our internet service went out, then with all the groups going on over here, there was no time for… Continue Reading

Viagra Falls!

“WHAT’S THE BUZZ, WITH STEPHEN AND WANDA” Hi, everyone, it’s me, Murry, once again reporting from the Braveman’s dinner table. As you might expect, they are talking about SEX tonight! I guess Stephen being a Sex Therapist, it would be natural that they talk about it a lot!! It would be good if everyone talked… Continue Reading

What’s on your mind?

“WHAT’S THE BUZZ, WITH STEPHEN AND WANDA” Hi, everyone, it’s me, Murry, the ever faithful “Fly on the Wall” at the Braveman’s. Tonight is TANTRA HOUR at the offices of ISGC. Dinner is hastily prepared. Vegan fare from Costco, Bolani stuffed with spinach, what a treat! I might even eat that! Usually there is nothing for Stephen… Continue Reading